Bisexual Girls Club

What did I envision for the Bisexual Girls Club? I wanted to create an opportunity to bond with like minded women without being judged and without having to prove being worthy of fitting in. So many clubs/parties already had their own clique running the whole thing and there always seemed to be some kind of competition to it, regardless of how cosmopolitan their mission sounded (that is, if they had a mission at all).

In some ways, I thought of it as a multi-purpose club. I thought of it as a book club, a party club, a bring-your-ideas-to-the-table
-here-because-you-share-with-anyone-else club, a best-friends club, a partners-in-crime club, a let’s-learn-from-each-other’s -experiences-by-trading-stories club, a new-adventures-together club. In a way I thought of it like the clubs in my childhood such as the 4-H club or maybe even the Girl Scouts Club, but with more of a metropolitan agenda!

I’ve been to many parties and have met a lot of people who are part of different communities. However, despite being pretty open minded and adventurous, in many ways I still felt alone. So many people already had their own thing going on, or where always moving so quickly in another direction, it was hard to reach out for.

It’s not always easy to stand out, especially when you’re still trying to figure out so much about yourself. Sometimes you think you’ve found something unique and outside of the mainstream only to be disappointed that it’s filled with it’s own prejudices and restrictions. If you’re not “different” in just the right way, sadly it cannot really be a comfortable fit.

After looking in so many places for that right environment, I decided that maybe it would be best to just offer my own option. Maybe my club could be the right fit for others in search of the same thing as me.

I’m not pretending I haven’t been to my share of amazing parties and haven’t developed some great bonds, but relationships and scenes change all the time and it can all happen so quickly. Now suddenly I find myself asking, “Where have all the girls like me gone?” and “Who can I share this part of myself with?” Maybe others are finding themselves in that same dilemma.

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